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A resident discovery conversation guide

Thoughtful prompts for learning what matters without making a resident feel interviewed.

8 minute guide

The most useful resident profile begins with a conversation, not a form. This guide helps care-team members invite stories while protecting a resident's choice to pause, skip, or change direction.

Begin with comfort and choice

Explain why you are asking and make it clear that there are no required answers. A resident should be able to decide what feels useful to share and what remains private.

  • What would make this feel like a good conversation for you?
  • Is there anything you would rather not talk about today?

Ask about the shape of a good day

Routine often reveals more actionable information than a list of hobbies. Listen for the pace, people, places, and small choices that make a day feel familiar.

  • What part of the day do you usually enjoy most?
  • Is there a routine you miss or would like to keep?
  • What helps a quiet afternoon feel worthwhile?

Explore identity beyond care needs

Work, family roles, skills, communities, and achievements can offer respectful openings for future engagement. Avoid treating a biography as fixed; people decide which parts matter now.

  • What have you spent a lot of your life doing?
  • What are you especially proud of?
  • What do people usually come to you for?

Close the loop

Summarize what you heard, ask what you missed, and explain how the information may be used. A useful profile is one the resident recognizes as their own.

  • What did I get right?
  • Is there anything you want me to change or leave out?
  • Who, if anyone, may we share this with?